Frequently Asked Questions

Get answers to common questions about live cam shows, safety, payments, and interacting with mistresses and dominatrixes

Getting Started
How do I choose the right mistress for me?
Browse performer profiles to see their specialties, read their bio, check their tags (BDSM, femdom, etc.), and watch their public shows first. Look for models whose personality and kinks match your interests. Don't hesitate to ask questions in chat before going private.
What's the difference between public and private shows?
Public shows are free to watch where you can chat and tip. Private shows are one-on-one sessions where you pay per minute (usually $2-8/min) for personalized attention and custom requests. Private shows offer more intimate interaction and the ability to direct the show.
How do tokens work?
Tokens are the virtual currency used to tip models and pay for private shows. You purchase token packages with real money (usually $1 = 10-20 tokens depending on the package). Tokens can be used for tips, private shows, and special requests.
Do I need to create an account to watch?
You can browse and watch public shows as a guest, but creating a free account allows you to chat, tip, save favorites, and book private shows. Registration is quick and only requires an email and username.
What should I expect in my first private show?
Communicate your interests and boundaries upfront. Most mistresses will ask what you're looking for and explain their rules. Start with shorter sessions (5-10 minutes) to see if you're compatible before booking longer shows.
Safety & Security
Is my personal information safe?
Yes, reputable cam sites use SSL encryption and secure servers. Your real name, address, and payment details are never shared with performers. You interact using only your chosen username, maintaining complete anonymity.
How do I stay anonymous while using the site?
Choose a username that doesn't reveal your identity, never share personal information in chat, use secure payment methods, and consider using a VPN if you want extra privacy. Your real identity is never required or revealed.
What are the community guidelines?
Respect all performers and their boundaries, no harassment or demanding behavior, no sharing of personal information, no recording or screenshots, follow each model's specific rules, and treat everyone with courtesy and respect.
How do I report inappropriate behavior?
Most sites have a report button in chat or on profiles. You can report harassment, rule violations, or technical issues. Moderators review reports quickly and take appropriate action including warnings, suspensions, or bans.
Are the performers real people?
Yes, all performers are verified real adults who choose to work in adult entertainment. They set their own schedules, boundaries, and prices. Each model is an independent performer with their own personality and specialties.
Payment & Billing
What payment methods do you accept?
Most sites accept major credit cards (Visa, MasterCard, American Express), PayPal, cryptocurrency (Bitcoin, Ethereum), and sometimes bank transfers. Payment processing is handled by secure third-party processors.
How secure are the payments?
Payments use bank-level SSL encryption and are processed by certified payment processors like CCBill or Epoch. Your financial information is never stored on cam site servers and follows strict PCI compliance standards.
Can I get a refund?
Refund policies vary by site, but generally technical issues (connection problems, site errors) are eligible for refunds. Dissatisfaction with a show typically isn't refundable since it's a live service, but customer support may offer credits in special circumstances.
How will charges appear on my statement?
Charges appear under discrete billing names that don't reveal the nature of the purchase. Common billing names include generic company names or abbreviations that protect your privacy.
Are there any hidden fees?
No hidden fees. You only pay for tokens you purchase and private shows you book. Some sites may have small processing fees for certain payment methods, but these are clearly disclosed before purchase.
Model Interaction
How do I interact with mistresses during shows?
Use the chat to communicate, follow their commands and rules, tip for special requests, be respectful and polite, ask before making requests, and remember that each mistress has their own style and preferences.
What should I never ask or do?
Never ask for personal information, don't demand free shows, avoid being pushy or rude, don't ask to meet in person, never try to record or screenshot, and always respect when a model says no to a request.
How do I request specific activities?
Ask politely in chat or private message, be specific about what you want, understand that models can decline any request, be prepared to tip for special requests, and discuss boundaries before private shows.
What if a model doesn't respond to me?
Models may be busy with other users, in private shows, or focused on their performance. Try tipping to get attention, be patient, or try again later when they're less busy. Don't spam or become demanding.
Can I become a regular with a specific mistress?
Many users develop ongoing relationships with favorite models. Regular customers often get special attention, discounts, custom content, and priority booking for private shows.
Technical Support
What if the video quality is poor?
Check your internet connection, try refreshing the page, lower the video quality setting if available, close other bandwidth-heavy applications, or try a different browser. Contact support if problems persist.
The site is running slowly, what can I do?
Clear your browser cache and cookies, disable browser extensions, try an incognito/private window, check for browser updates, or try a different browser. Chrome and Firefox typically work best.
I can't hear audio in shows
Check your device volume, ensure the site has audio permissions, look for mute buttons on the video player, try refreshing the page, or check if your browser is blocking audio autoplay.
How do I contact customer support?
Most sites have a 'Contact' or 'Support' link in the footer, live chat support, email support, or help tickets. Include your username, description of the issue, and any error messages you're seeing.
What browsers work best?
Chrome, Firefox, Safari, and Edge all work well. Make sure your browser is updated to the latest version. Some older browsers may not support all features like HD video or interactive toys.
Account Management
How do I change my username?
Most sites don't allow username changes after registration to maintain consistency for models and other users. If you need a change, contact customer support - they may make exceptions in special circumstances.
Can I delete my account?
Yes, you can usually delete your account through account settings or by contacting support. Note that this will remove your chat history, favorites, and any unused tokens may be forfeited.
How do I manage my spending?
Set a budget before you start, only purchase tokens you can afford to lose, use the spending limit features if available, keep track of your token balance, and take breaks to avoid overspending.
What happens to unused tokens?
Tokens typically don't expire, but check the site's terms of service. If you delete your account, unused tokens are usually forfeited. Some sites may have inactivity policies for very old accounts.
How do I save my favorite models?
Look for a heart or star icon on model profiles or in their chat room. Favorited models will appear in your favorites list, and you may receive notifications when they come online.
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